My husband is dying of congestive heart failure, and our income, as of today, is zero. I was supporting us both for the past year on meager emergency unemployment benefits, but today, they told me those benefits are exhausted.
He has had two bypass surgeries and has a stent. Because he was laid off before I was, he has been out of work longer – but he was on my insurance until I lost my job and the insurance benefits stopped. We did not qualify for other benefits because we made too much money while we were on unemployment!
I am healthier than he is; he is in a bad way and hasn’t been receiving the kind of care he was before all of this happened. He used to go for a protime (to check his blood viscosity because he was on blood thinners) every few weeks – that doesn’t happen anymore. He went from about 6 medications down to 2 medications and aspirin, and is not being regularly seen by a physician.
I’m hoping and praying this is only temporary. We are on the verge of losing everything, due – in part – to the terrorist-like actions of the group that has been stalking me for the last 8 years, compounded by Illinois’ high unemployment rate, and the Obama economy.
I am planning on putting a few items on ebay, I will post links to them in this post when I get the ebay listings up.
If you know of anyone who can use virtual administrative assistant services – like
- voice transcription
- proofreading
- freelance writing
- blog updates
social media management
- linked in
or other social media profile management-
Or would like a consultation on how to improve their social media – or
- want to start a blog and don’t know how to begin and would like coaching-
- tweak a blog
- need a wordpress site set up-
- or a wordpress installation set up on their domain-
Or other such things – pass on my information to anyone you think could utilize my services.
If you know of an organization that could use database entry, spreadsheet creation and/or maintenance or other administrative assistant functions, please let them know about me.
I can be contacted at my website My Creative Today dot com.
If you are moved in any way to send me money directly, you can easily send just about any amount via paypal.
Time is of the essence. We are discussing divorce, moving in with our respective families and selling off our belongings. I may have to give up my dog.
This would never have happened to us if Jack Idema had been allowed by his stalkers to sell his properties without interference.
Without some assistance, soon – everything will be lost, and my websites will go down.
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Update 8/10/12:
Thank you to all those who have donated to save me, my husband and my dog from being homeless, you are helping me and my husband through the most horrible time we’ve ever experienced in our 18 years together.
We are behind on our association fee, and of course have not been able to pay our mortgage payment for months – anything you can contribute would be greatly appreciated.

































Why would you consider a divorce when your husband is “dying”? That wouldn’t be a priority when you love someone. Maybe if you concentrated on your husband and not Idema you would not be in the situation you are in. You, just like all the rest, was promised money from Jack and he used you. For 7 months you jumped at Jack’s beckoning. You also knowingly got Harvest Ministries to move into the building knowing it was a phony rental agreement because Isabeau Dakota was suspended. How can you live with yourself & keep blaming me????? Why didn’t you listen to everyone when we tried to help you not get hurt? No, instead you believed Jack and he did the same thing to you that he did to everyone. So if you want someone to blame, just look in the mirror. And please stop writing about me. Lowering yourself and begging for money is just validating me and making yourself look like white trash. Your husband was ill for a long time, but yet that didn’t stop you from taking off & leaving him for 7 months to help out “soldier boy” as you called him. I really hope you climb out of your poor me hole and help your husband who you royally screwed over. Best to you, Penny
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I never called him ‘soldier boy’, Penny. You are a very mixed up individual. And you tell me I’m obsessed with him – but the bottom line is – you never shut up about him because he is your only link to fame!
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One more thing, perhaps you are not aware of, but on your My Creative Today blog section, you have alot of bizarre entries from some woman in Sweden. They are not going to help you get any business if anyone reads them. I find them repulsive and offensive and I’m sure many others will as well. Especially the sex stuff and the photo “Hungry Gay with AIDS”. Disgusting and in light of Jack’s recent passing, mighty disrespectful considering you are the President of The Idema Fan Club. Shame on you.
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Penny, I don’t care what you say – how did you get here? I banned you!
Shut up and leave me alone and stop harassing me!
My life is none of your business!
And as for whatever comments you’re talking about, you probably put them there.
when I get the time to catch up to what’s happening online, I’ll check it out.
But not offending you is not my primary concern. If you check the law, a blogger is not responsible for the offensive comments that are put there by other people…
You should contact your girlfriend who said I have AIDS – you know the one, SAM? Because I was ‘offended’ by her malicious comments! But you just laugh about that, now, don’t you?
Stay off this blog, Penny.
I will clean all this up when I get the time…right now I’m in a fight for my life and my husband’s life, whichi s a lot more important to me than your opinions.
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As far as that woman from Sweden, Sonja Abrahamsson, I guess you missed that story.
Sweden Stands By Twitter Strategy Despite Controversy
@Sweden Twitter Account Stirs Controversy
Why Did Sweden Hand Its National Twitter Account Over To A Troll?
She’s really cute – I checked out her youtube channel.
If you’re offended by her or my daring to talk about it-, why don’t you complain to the country of Sweden? And the Wall Street Journal, Huffington Post, Forbes and all the other people & journalists who were talking about it? (See the above links in red since you’re not all the bright about blogging and what’s happening in the world) She was twittering on Sweden’s twitter account, which is what I was talking about.
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Hmnmm. Interesting. Anybody want to talk to my husband about what Penny said there – about ‘my screwing him over’? Email me at caoilfhionn1 at gmail dot com and you can talk to him on the phone
The people who screwed me and my husband are the same ones that screwed Jack Idema; and if you want to hear about that, email me and you can talk with us on the phone
Read a few of the blog comments and listen to the voicemails that Penny and her buddies left for me–
http://theydontfoolme.com/4708/sunlight-is-the-best-disinfectant/
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YOU HAVE BANNED ME!!!!! Let me get this straight, you blog lies about me and I have been BANNED from replying! You are one sick twisted woman. If you didn’t buy into Jack’s lies, you wouldn’t be broke. Period. All your lies are coming back to you and rightfully so. For 2 1/2 years you have made my life a living hell all for no reason but jealousy and bitterness. You have done everything you possibly could to make what days I have left miserable. You forget what Idema gave me. And for some sick reason, you have chosen yourself as his keeper and mouthpiece. You are a hypocrite and a liar and have dragged everyone around you down. You and I are coming to the end of this battle, thank god. I am way past fed up with you and what you have done to me. So keep BANNING me! If it gives you a little relief so be it.
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Voicemails you left for me in your own voice are lies? Wow, that’s a pretty big stretch of the imagination, Penny.
You don’t like it – but just because you don’t like it isn’t a good enough reason for me to stop talking about what a psycho you are and all the damage you caused.
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Also, which “husband” is dying? You said that your ex was dying in May & now this one is too? Also, a year ago you said your mother was dying of breast cancer? Wow, you told me 2 years ago that this husband was having trouble but it was in his legs? Remember you sent me photos? I can post them if you like, in case you forgot. Ooops, but that’s right, I’ve been BANNED!!!!! I’m sorry but your self-destruction is a hoot and long overdue.
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My first husband had 1/3 of his lung removed, due to an undetected abscess that they found when trying to let out some fluid they saw on exrays- not that you care. And he did almost die – which is why my sons were crying at his bedside – my first husband is their father.
Stop bothering me – none of this is your business! And Jack is dead – get on with your life!
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No, I didn’t send you photos. I think you’ve got the wrong person! Wow I keep seeing a lot of crazy made-up stuff in your comments, excuse me for laughing!
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STOP HARASSING ME AND STOP WRITING ABOUT ME. Every time you post my name you are harassing/stalking ME. Any time you mention my name it is MY business. This should have been over a long time ago but you just keep going on. Stop your obsession with me and just go away. Stop projecting your actions and views that are nonsensical nonsense at me. Within the last 6 months you have posted at least 6 blogs with my name in them. Why? Then you BAN me from replying!!!!!! Of course, I will reply when I see my name. Seems simple enough to me: stop writing about me and I will not reply.
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Penny, leave me and my wife alone, you twisted friggin bitch. Go find a hole to stick your head in and strangle yourself.
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6 blogs? WHAT? In your mind I am running the internet!
Get a grip on reality, woman!
I only have 3 posts that are available to the general reading public here about you and there are 433 posts on this blog so far. I have 2 posts that are password protected that include a lot more about you that you need to enter a password for.
This is information that I’m sure your next mark would be interested in knowing before he got too deeply involved with you.
Anyone interested in reading those two password protected posts can email me for the link to the posts and the password at caoilfhionn1 at gmail dot com and find out more of what this woman has done to harass me, stalk me, bother me, spread malicious rumors about me, go after people I’ve worked for, my hosting company, etc.
I could care less about Penny 99.1% of the time! I do not ‘obsess’ about her, I’m hardly online anymore!
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Your stalker sound exactly like Brett Kimberlin. Seriously.
Check out my “Official Troll Policy” linked in one of my sidebars next time you’re over at my place, see how I deal with them in my comments section, because it may be helpful to you as well.
I’m sorry about your husband and all the troubles your having. I haven’t been blogging much due to illness, but I will do my best to get the word out and see if I can round up the Calvary to help you out.
(((hugs)))
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Thank-you, Zilla. Thank you so much! You have helped me tremendously – beyond measure in so many ways, and I pray for you daily.
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The world deserves to know what you did to me, Penny.
The fact that you can’t stand that I have recordings of your phone calls and emails and documented your stalking really bothers you. Why? Because it proves what I’ve been saying all along.
The fact that you keep coming back shrieking about it also proves you’re the one who is doing the cyberstalking.
You should have never called me and left those messages, but it seems like you can’t help yourself because you think you should be the center of everyone’s universe!
I’m sorry, you’re not anywhere near the center of my universe, and never will be.
You and all those people you bragged you recruited as the “Enemies of Idema” -or EOI are the reason me and my husband are in the position we’re in.
So-For the millionth time – SHUT UP!
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I saw this mentioned on PJ media and thought I’d come offer some job information. There are a number of things you can do at home; they don’t pay much, but it’s better than nothing. Myself, I’ve been “under”employed since graduating last year, and doing a number of these kind of jobs out of the house. Right now, I’m doing web page ratings for bing; but Google hires for the same type job, too. I’m also grading tests for ETS; earlier this year I worked for one of their competitors. There are various transcription type jobs you can do at home, as well. Like I said- none of these pay great, but you can at least be at home doing them. If you’re interested in them, drop me an email and I’ll help you find them. Or you can check some of the “work from home” boards online, that’s how I find work, usually.
I’ll keep you in my prayers.
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Thank-you! I’ll drop you a line!
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Linked here.
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I love the title of your post, 1389!
And thank you for helping Cao.
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Thank-you, Zilla & 1389! Penny Alesi is a liar – and you can’t believe anything she says.
She should have scrolled down on that 1389 post where 1389 added my clarification- I didn’t own that building, I was working as property manager for my friend. Penny and her friends were determined to stop me from doing what I was sent there to do-and went to great lengths to harass and intimidate me the whole time.
If I start lying like her, then I’ll be just like her – and contrary to her saying I’m jealous of her, I feel sorry for her and wish she’d get some mental help and move on with her life. What a shame; she’s making even more of a damned stone cold fool of herself.
Penny’s unrelenting harassment is very hard to follow, and I understand how it can be confusing.
Please send me any of the comments she tries to leave in your comments sections before you nuke ‘em at caoilfhionn1 at gmail dot com.
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